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3 Urdu couplets and shers with takalluf

takalluf(m): formality

Description of takalluf: Takalluf is an Urdu noun denoting excessive formality, ceremony, or pretense in social interactions, often involving unnecessary effort to impress or show respect. Unlike genuine hospitality, which flows naturally, takalluf imposes artificial constraints that hinder comfort. Differs from mere politeness by its burdensome, affected nature. In Urdu poetry, it evokes insincere etiquette, as in Ghalib's verses critiquing social facades.

1 / 3: takalluf

purseesh-e-haal bhi itni kimain kuchh keh na sakun

is takalluf se karam ho to

sitam hota hai

this inquiry of my condition

is so that i can’t say anything

kindness with such formality

becomes cruelty indeed

Kamal Ahmad Siddiqui (1)
sitam (m) (12)

tyranny, cruelty

takalluf (m) (3)

formality

purseesh (f) (1)

inquiry

haal (m) (17)

plight, condition

karam (m) (9)

kindness, grace, favor

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2 / 3: takalluf

dost hota nahin

har haath milaane waala

you mistake a gesture of formality

for sincere affection, 'faraz'

not every one who shakes your hand

is a friend

takalluf (m) (3)

formality

ikhlaas (m) (1)

sincerity

samajhte (6)

understand, deem

dost (m) (9)

friend

haath (m) (12)

hand

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3 / 3: takalluf

aap se phir tum hue

phir tu ka unwaan ho gaye

when love grew beyond a point

it erased all formality

addressing as aap became a tum

which affectionately turned into tu

Izhar Anwar (1)
pyaar (m) (7)

love

had (f) (2)

boundary

takalluf (m) (3)

formality

aap (12)

respectful 'you'

unwaan (m) (1)

title, address, preface

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